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Awareness to Behaviors
Don't ignore the signs. When it comes to others and ourselves, it's important to pay attention to the details in a given social...

Hector Solis
Dec 4, 20201 min read


Existentialism
Existentialism is a form of philosophical inquiry that explores the problem of human existence and centers on the lived experience of the...

Hector Solis
Dec 3, 20201 min read


Scars and Tattoos
Everything we've ever done becomes a scar or a tattoo. Each having their own story and psychological weight. Bad experiences are the...

Hector Solis
Dec 2, 20201 min read


Anticipate Failure
It’s going to happen. Seeking to become a better version of yourself comes with challenges that are far beyond our ability to handle....

Hector Solis
Dec 1, 20201 min read


Rhythm
What is rhythm? Your voice fluctuation and tonality. The pacing of the conversation. Your facial expressions and movement. Very subtle....

Hector Solis
Nov 30, 20201 min read


Blindspots
Everyone in one form or another has a blindspot. They distort the reality in which we live in and provide us with a fantasy that we...

Hector Solis
Nov 29, 20202 min read


The Practicality of Scripted Material
Canned lines. It is your ally. In moments when the mind succumbs to illusions or is overwhelmed by variables in the environment, it can...

Hector Solis
Nov 28, 20201 min read


Being Thankful
Being appreciative, having a sense of gratitude and reflecting on the good that is life can be one way of coming into realization with...

Hector Solis
Nov 27, 20201 min read


Becoming An Individual
Excerpt from “Beyond Feelings: A Guide to Critical Thinking” By Vincent Ryan Ruggiero “Becoming an Individual. Regard individuality not...

Hector Solis
Nov 25, 20201 min read


What Is Personality?
Personality, a characteristic way of thinking, feeling, and behaving. Personality embraces moods, attitudes, and opinions and is most...

Hector Solis
Nov 24, 20201 min read


Becoming Natural
What are some of the characteristics that indicate a transition from someone who struggles in social interactions to someone who is...

Hector Solis
Nov 23, 20201 min read


Feeling Overwhelmed
There’s always that feeling that emerges in the back of our heads when the pressure of social interaction becomes too intense. That the...

Hector Solis
Nov 22, 20201 min read


Incongruency
A common issue for anyone attempting to engage in social interactions is that what you say, think, feel and do may not be truly aligned....

Hector Solis
Nov 21, 20201 min read


Let Go
We hold on to the past with a grip that's too tight. With a fixation so heavy on the wrongs done to us. Unable to forgive ourselves for...

Hector Solis
Nov 20, 20201 min read


The Secret Language
A common misconception is that our direct action is the only variable that is measured in any given social interaction. Being calculated...

Hector Solis
Nov 19, 20201 min read


The Basics
Everything starts with the basics. The newest secret techniques or theory isn’t going to save you. When we engage with the world around...

Hector Solis
Nov 18, 20201 min read


Waking Up From the Conditioning
For the most part, we are conditioned to believe that the circumstances that befall us are out of our control. That who we are and what...

Hector Solis
Nov 17, 20201 min read


Ascension
Whether you’d like it or not, adversity is imminent. The descent to chaos and entropy are universal forces that are built into the fabric...

Hector Solis
Nov 12, 20201 min read


"I Don't Feel Like It"
We’ve all been there. Feelings of exhaustion and introversion. Being drained from social interactions. Everything becomes a daunting task...

Hector Solis
Nov 11, 20201 min read


When to Talk and When to Listen
If you have ever ran out of things to say, then you know how it feels to be stuck. Often, we think being an amazing conversationalist...

Hector Solis
Nov 8, 20202 min read
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