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The SPACE Model for Social Skills
The SPACE model is a bio-psycho-social framework based on cognitive-behavioral psychology. Its purpose is to guide the coach in assessing...

Hector Solis
Oct 23, 20201 min read
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Conceptualization and Application of Social Skills
How can I understand and improve my social skills? Through knowledge and experience. Understanding the intent, philosophy, psychology,...

Hector Solis
Oct 22, 20201 min read
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So You Want to Be High Status?
Well it comes at a cost. Be prepared to lie. Be ready to stomp on others throats. Be willing to be tyrannical. Be willing to give up any...

Hector Solis
Oct 20, 20201 min read
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Conflict Between Thinking and Feel
Life presents us with opportunities and obstacles. But ultimately one of the greatest experiences that man encounters is conflict within...

Hector Solis
Oct 19, 20201 min read
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What is social skills?
Social skills. This term refers to skills that enable an individual to interact positively with the environment, which provides positive...

Hector Solis
Oct 16, 20201 min read
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Autopsy of a Year of Struggle
Brazilian Jiu-jitsu, Muay Thai, and strength training have really challenged me these past few months along with exploring what it means...

Hector Solis
Sep 29, 20201 min read
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Choose One
We'd like to achieve all of our goals all at once but that may not be possible. The best thing you can do is to choose one. To choose one...

Hector Solis
Sep 22, 20201 min read
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Competition vs Collaboration
Is the human condition competitive or collaborative? Some may think one is superior to the other. In reality both are valid means of...

Hector Solis
Sep 16, 20203 min read
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Motivating Factors
We all want something. Whether it be new experiences, more wealth or to be of higher status. It drives us to work hard and be motivated....

Hector Solis
Sep 3, 20201 min read
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Management of Emotional States
Whenever we engage with the world around us and come across stressors in the environment we inhabit, it can be difficult finding control...

Hector Solis
Aug 17, 20201 min read
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Momentum
We've all been there. It's been a long day and you got a lot done. But there's something missing. You feel unfulfilled and dissatisfied....

Hector Solis
Aug 8, 20201 min read
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What's your excuse?
Finding a solution to a problem is no easy feat. Especially when it's inbeded in the way we feel, think and expressive ourselves. But...

Hector Solis
Aug 6, 20201 min read
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Fight Another Day
We often are reminded of how life can be so unforgiving. Whenever I see someone struggle with deep emotional pain and feelings of...

Hector Solis
Aug 4, 20201 min read
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Foundations: A Structured Model of Human Interaction and Social Skills
Components to a Foundation Awareness Environment Energy Material Expression Pattern Logic Inner World Awareness: Consciousness...

Hector Solis
Aug 3, 20201 min read
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Debilitating Emotional Pain
If you've ever dealt with moments of debilitating emotional pain, I understand. Feeling stuck, not knowing what to do, and being to...

Hector Solis
Jul 15, 20201 min read
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Hard Times
When it comes to hard times, it can be a daunting task to move forward. Fear only seems to grow stronger, with no sign of slowing. Losing...

Hector Solis
Jul 10, 20201 min read
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How to Fix the Incel Epidemic with Social Skills
May 23, 2014, Santa Barbara Police identified 22 year old Elliot Rodger as the man who killed six people during a Friday night rampage...

Hector Solis
Sep 10, 20193 min read
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